Experiencing an abortion or miscarriage can leave you feeling emotionally and physically drained—sometimes in ways you didn’t expect. Whether your loss was recent or years ago, healing is possible. TLC of Hastings is here to support you with compassion and care.
Summary
Grieving after pregnancy loss is normal. Your experience is valid whether it happened by choice or circumstance. This post explores what to expect physically and emotionally—and how TLC offers hope and healing through support, counseling, and resources.
On this page
- ▾ Physical Recovery After Pregnancy Loss
- ▾ Emotional Healing After Abortion or Miscarriage
- ▾ You Don’t Have to Heal Alone
- ▾ How TLC Can Help
- ▾ Frequently Asked Questions
Physical Recovery After Pregnancy Loss
Every woman’s recovery is different, but there are common physical symptoms that follow a miscarriage or abortion:
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Cramping or abdominal pain as the uterus contracts back to size
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Bleeding or spotting for several days or weeks
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Breast tenderness or leaking (especially if the pregnancy was farther along)
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Fatigue from hormone shifts and blood loss
If you experience severe pain, heavy bleeding, fever, or foul-smelling discharge, seek medical care immediately.
Emotional Healing After Abortion or Miscarriage
Pregnancy loss affects more than your body—it can deeply impact your heart and mind. It’s normal to feel:
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Grief, sadness, or emptiness
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Guilt or shame
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Relief followed by confusion
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Anger, regret, or numbness
You might experience emotional waves days, weeks, or even years later—especially during holidays, due dates, or anniversaries of your loss. That doesn’t mean you’re broken—it means you’re human.
You Don’t Have to Heal Alone
Support after pregnancy loss makes a difference. Whether you feel isolated or simply need someone who understands, TLC is here.
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Post-abortion and miscarriage support counseling
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Referrals to long-term recovery groups
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Faith-based healing programs like Healing Hearts
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Peer mentors who’ve walked a similar path
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Confidential, non-judgmental listening without pressure
Healing doesn’t mean forgetting—it means making space for peace.
How TLC Can Help
TLC of Hastings is a place of hope and restoration. Our team provides:
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Compassionate mentors and counselors trained in post-abortion and miscarriage support
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Healing Hearts: an 11-week Bible-based recovery course
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A safe, confidential space to grieve and heal—without judgment
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Personalized support whether your loss was last week or years ago
📞 Call: 651-437-4200
📱 Text: 651-347-1889
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Frequently Asked Questions
How long will it take to feel better emotionally?
There’s no timeline. Healing looks different for everyone. TLC will walk with you, at your pace.
Can I still feel grief if I chose to have an abortion?
Yes. Many women feel a complex mix of emotions, and grief is normal—even when you made the decision yourself.
Is your counseling faith-based?
We offer both faith-based and non-religious options, depending on your preferences.
Can my partner come with me?
Yes. We support partners and offer father-focused mentoring too.
What if my loss was a long time ago?
It’s never too late to seek support. Many women find healing even years later.